Twitter and the Kindness of Strangers

Posted By on April 30, 2012 in Thoughts on life | 0 Comments

I have started using Twitter as a way to connect with the outside world for business.  It’s been a slow process but I think I’m starting to understand it a bit now.  There are all these how to’s out there, but nothing works like trying it yourself.

In the beginning, it is very strange.  You have this vague idea that you’re supposed to follow people and they follow you back, but how does that happen actually?  Following celebrities and news agencies seems safe and anonymous.  But then, it gets trickier.  There are real people out there who are doing and talking about things that you are interested in.  Do you follow them?  What if they don’t follow back?  Do you comment on a tweet?  Will they think it’s weird getting a comment from someone they’ve never met?  Who are these people who are following you and how did they find you?  Twitter is not for the paranoid.  You just have to embrace the experience.  Don’t be self conscious, you can always delete a tweet if you change your mind.  It is possible someone may have read it before you delete it, but hey, you probably don’t know them anyway.

So slowly and tentatively, I started following people.  Then you find someone saying exactly what you think and how exciting is that?  It’s easy to tweet back enthusiastically about something you agree with wholeheartedly.  This is where the kindness kicks in.  I have become connected to many people who are skilled at what they do and are also very generous with their knowledge and advice.  It’s great to feel supported by people who know what they are talking about and in some cases, have been through the same experience.  Running your own business can be very lonely, especially when it’s still tiny.  There are times when it all seems futile and you’re tempted to just let it slide.  But then I go on Twitter and read about all the things my tweeps are doing, the projects they are involved in, the new ideas they are working on and it gives me energy.  I’ve even met some of them in person and they’ve been just as lovely as they are on Twitter.  It’s just been a great tool professionally.

So while I am very much a novice and still trying to figure it all out, if you have a small business or a project you are trying to get off the ground, I recommend Twitter highly.

You can start by following me – @KinomiLondon.